YOUR PARTY FRIEND MAKES MISCHIEF, SURE.

they’re the one reading and working the room with you, making sure you feel included, seen, celebrated. they’re introducing you to your next back-of-bar heart-to-heart, or leading you to an unexpected opportunity offered over a few martinis. they’re responsible for your best nights, brimming with stories. for the unfiltered late-night conversations that still impact your life, years later. 

the party friend is a catalyst, turning a room full of strangers into an intimate social circle, but it’s what *you* bring to the table that ensures the relationships stick. we make the closest friends in the cozy corner of a raging house party because we’re not afraid to let go a little: to allow the conversation to dance between work goals and favourite pizza spots, to give advice and ask for it, to aspire and confess, to mix business with pleasure.

the same goes for social media.

to build a truly invested community online — the kind of followers friends who will support you through any season of life and business, who are down to ride through every pivot, show up for every launch, and recommend you in every room — we have to be willing to bring our whole selves to the table. the play, not just the work. the person, not just the product.

seeing success online as a forward-facing founder doesn’t happen through algorithm-hacking, it happens through relationships.

but they're also your MOST powerful connector.

they’re the one reading and working the room with you, making sure you feel included, seen, celebrated. they’re introducing you to your next back-of-bar heart-to-heart, or leading you to an unexpected opportunity offered over a few martinis. they’re responsible for your best nights, brimming with stories. for the unfiltered late-night conversations that still impact your life, years later. 

the party friend is a catalyst, turning a room full of strangers into an intimate social circle, but it’s what *you* bring to the table that ensures the relationships stick. we make the closest friends in the cozy corner of a raging house party because we’re not afraid to let go a little: to allow the conversation to dance between work goals and favourite pizza spots, to give advice and ask for it, to aspire and confess, to mix business with pleasure.

the same goes for social media.

to build a truly invested community online — the kind of followers friends who will support you through any season of life and business, who are down to ride through every pivot, show up for every launch, and recommend you in every room — we have to be willing to bring our whole selves to the table. the play, not just the work. the person, not just the product.

seeing success online as a forward-facing founder doesn’t happen through algorithm-hacking, it happens through relationships.

but they're also your MOST powerful connector.

the real algorithm is just people. 
party friend helps you find yours. 

IT'S ME

THE

PARTY

FRIEND

hi, I’m Xanthe: a classic case of the neopets kid to tumblr teen to social media strategist pipeline. I’ve worked in the online marketing arena for over a decade, and my entire career has been built (and re-built) on the back of the trust I have with my online community.

I’ve de-scaled an agency team and started fresh as an educator, walked away from 5-fig offers that didn’t feel right, invested in a wine shop, launched an airbnb business, started writing romantic fiction, and relocated to multiple countries amidst it all — knowing, no matter what, that my people will see me, celebrate me, and invest in me, through every season. and they do.

everything I share through party friend is a result of both my lived experience and my expertise, proving that we can lead while sharing our lives and in fact, our livelihoods will be better for it.

hi, I’m Xanthe: a classic case of the neopets kid to tumblr teen to social media strategist pipeline. I’ve worked in the online marketing arena for over a decade, and my entire career has been built (and re-built) on the back of the trust I have with my online community.

I’ve de-scaled an agency team and started fresh as an educator, walked away from 5-fig offers that didn’t feel right, invested in a wine shop, launched an airbnb business, and relocated to multiple countries amidst it all — knowing, no matter what, that my people will see me, celebrate me, and invest in me, through every season. and they do.

everything I share through party friend is a result of both my lived experience and my expertise, proving that we can lead while sharing our lives and in fact, our livelihoods will be better for it.

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